Monday, January 30, 2012

Should I have not sent her flowers? I just wanted to make her smile.?

didn't know this girl that well. I'm 24 and she's 19. We hung out twice several months ago and she kind of acted like she liked me. I bumped into her at a party the other night. She asked me if I remembered her and I forgot who she was briefly which seemed to upset her. I remembered later. Anyway, I realized I liked her a lot that night. She is going through a tough time because her friend is in the hospital and I went ahead and ordered her some flowers (not roses) and had them delivered to her parents house where she stays yesterday afternoon. I put on the card "Smile, Kassi...from a guy who's very sorry he forgot your name." We have no way to contacting each other except through Myspace and I haven't gotten a message or anything from her, so i'm just wondering do you all think that I maybe I creeped her out?

Should I have not sent her flowers? I just wanted to make her smile.?
She probably doesn't know what to think. But they probably were nice to get so, even if you never see her again, be happy that you did a nice thing. :)
Reply:It's possible. You never know. I would say that yes...you probably did but that doesn't mean I am right. I would tell her that you are sorry if the flowers might have scared her and tell her that you just wanted to apologize. Give her some time to respond. Like you said, she is going through a tough time right now.
Reply:No...I think what you did would please most ladies. You sound like a really nice guy.
Reply:You did fine. Send her a message via MySpace, ask her if she'd like to get together for a cuppa coffee at Starbucks and chat or something.
Reply:No, it was a nice gesture. Maybe she just hasn't gotten online lately and has been spending time with her friend. If she STILL doesn't reply after awhile, ask her how she is on myspace and see if she replies. After this... ask her for her phone number. :-)
Reply:i hope not what you did sounds very nice, you say you have no contact details for her, then how do you know her parents address. that is a contact detail. do you have any mutual friends ask them for contact details.
Reply:YEs you should talk to her hold her hands look into her eyes and tell her ur sorry ..
Reply:That's sweet..idk why she would be creeped out....you should try to contact her to make sure she got them or something...initiate the conversation...
Reply:No she's probably a little occupied.
Reply:Weird,,, do not do stuff like that!
Reply:first 0f all y0oh sh0uld have gave her 0rchids[[d0nt kn0w h0w t0 spell it]] because th0se are the best n0w tell her over myspace that if she liked the fl0wers tell her y0oh s0rry that y0oh f0rg0t her name and n0w that she is all y0oh can think ab0ut and y0oh are an idi0t f0r f0rgettin her btw y0oh are an idi0t f0r f0rgetting y0oh always supp0sse t0 play al0ng trhat y0oh remember her

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