My crazy abusive ex keeps on calling me and sending me flowers and diamonds. I told him to leave me alone but he keeps on following me to work and school. I had a tried to get a restaining order against him but he keep on breaking it. I think I should get mace or pepper spray. I already took self-defense and used on him but he keeps on coming back to me. What should I do?
How do I get rid of this unwanted attention?
Please take this seriously.
One of my Loves was a situation similar to this. She wound up being violently assaulted and, luckily for her, she kicked the everloving crap out of him.
Get that restraining order as soon as possible.
When he breaks the restraining order, call the police immediately. I believe a restraining order stipulates how many feet he can be to your person. If he is following you home from work or school, have a cellular phone handy and call the police. If you see him near your home, car, work, etc., call.
Regarding the pepper spray or mace, check your local ordinances. In some places they are legal and some not. You do not want to be penalized for protecting yourself. If they are legal, get some and take classes in how to use it.
Regarding the self defense classes, I hope they were good ones.
Return the diamonds and flowers or any gifts. Do not return them in person... do so via the post or whoever he had deliver them.
Reply:Call the police and tell them that he's not obeying the restraining order. Get a stun gun. The kind that the electrodes shoot out, that way he doesn't have to be so close to you. Zap him!
Reply:call a dating violence center asap...
Reply:Ok i heard that if you do the same thing then hell go away so
try to follow him and just everywhere he goes stare at him, it worked for me!
Reply:Call the police and have him arrested on restrianting order violation. Change your number, and probably start looking for other place to live while his in jail.
Reply:If you figure it out,tell me. I have an ex I broke up with over a year ago and I still come home to notes on my door from him-creepy.
Reply:Get an attack dog a body guard and a registered gun.
Reply:If your ex is violating the restraining order, you should contact police and inform them that he is disobeying the restraining order. Make sure that you keep track of the time, place, and circumstances surrounding each incident in which he contacts you. Until then, it would be a good idea to carry pepper spray or something like that.
Reply:first things first, tell the police he is breaking the restraining order.
2nd. if possible get mace and an alarm.
3rd get a dog, a german shepard is best.
4th have a friend pick you up or car pool, to work or school, some schools and jobs will escort you to and from your car, talk to head of security, explain the situation.
if he comes around, have a person you can call to meet you anywhere. If he follows you in public, embarass him. Dont be nice. Yell at him, say "stop following me, i am not interested"
good luck
i dont want to say you need a man, but getting a new boy friend might help.
Reply:If this is true, you have to move and make sure he doesn't find out where.
Reply:Fake your own death.
Reply:Stab him in the dick.
Reply:have sex with his brother.
Reply:Tell him you got herpies or HIV he will never call you again!
Also CoverUP when you tell him, Be very unsexy, be serous.
Tell him in a real way, Like I gotta tell you something!
Reply:Stick needles in his eyes.
Reply:Don't answer your phone. Get caller ID. If you can, vary your routine. Have another guy come home with you.
Reply:You guys need to talk this down. Tell him that your not going to make your mind on getting back to him. So you guys need to stop wasting each other's time.
If this didnt work, let your male friend know about this so he can do something about it to protect you.
Or tell the police about him breaking the restraining order.
Your not alone on this one, alot of people has similar experience.
So cheer up, you'll be fine.
Reply:Sexual Harassment :
- A Global Problem
- How to Protect Yourself
http://watchtower.org/library/g/1996/5/2...
How Can You Make Peace With Others? :
~ Wars With Words--Why Are They Hurtful?
~ The Benefits of Making Peace
http://watchtower.org/library/w/2005/3/1...
Help for Battered Women! :
- "Maybe This Time He'll Change"
- Why Do Men Batter Women?
- Help for Battered Women
- Machismo--A Global Problem
- Correcting Misconceptions
- "Sometimes I Think I Am Dreaming!" (a successful outcome)
http://watchtower.org/e/20011108/article...
How to Solve Problems Peacefully
- Why They Resort to Violence
- How to Solve Problems Peacefully
http://watchtower.org/library/w/1998/11/...
Women--What Does the Future Hold for Them? :
- Discrimination Against Females
- Appreciating Women and Their Work
- What Does the Future Hold for Women?
- Girl Prostitutes--Who Is to Blame?
- Three Ways a Woman Can Improve Her Lot
http://watchtower.org/library/g/1998/4/8...
Although several of these articles aren't exactly what you're looking for, I believe they contain suggestions you could apply to your situation.
Hope--Where Can You Find It? :
- You Can Fight Pessimism
- Where Can You Find REAL Hope? http://watchtower.org/e/20040422/article...
Advanced Search
http://watchtower.org/search/search_e.ht...
(can be used to find future-modified URLs)
Reply:Invite him and his mother to your house. Cook them both a big meal. When his mother goes to the bathroom follow her with a garden hose and a camera, when you are convinced she is sitting taking care of business bust into the bathroom and begin hosing her down, capture all of this on camera. After the incident tell your ex that he either leaves you alone or the pictures will find their way all over the internet......
Reply:Do the same to him. Call him 100 times a day. Call him during 3 am in the morning. Call him when he eats. Call him When he's at work. Call him whenever and wherever.
you never know. it might work...
Reply:hire a professional out of town to kill him
Reply:Call the police every time. You deserve to be safe. Maybe you could move if that's an option.
Thursday, February 9, 2012
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