Girlfriend didnt wanna hangout today, even though sundays are our set day we hangout no matter what...?

ok so heres the deal. me and my girlfriend use to hangout everyday, It felt great to see her and be with her. but latley she is friends with her bestfriend who she was fighting with for a loooong time. now that shes back i can only see her every other day. we went to the mall friday, and she told me that we would hangout sunday, and sunday is our day. so she goes to the beach saturday, and then i get a random fone call saying hey im hanging out with my friend tommarrow. she didnt even ask if it was ok, she didnt consider my feelings at all. prior to that day she said she hates people who dont keep there promises. she knows shes wrong for ditching me, and acts like its not a big deal. IDK wat to do, i ordered flowers to her house saying sorry cus we kinda got into a fight. I just wanna make her feel the same way as me, I wish she felt as empty as i did when im not with her. I really want her to feel my pain and call me and beg me to come over. what are some ways i can do this?

Girlfriend didnt wanna hangout today, even though sundays are our set day we hangout no matter what...?
You sound more like the girlfriend to me. Give her some space and explore parts of your life that doesn't involve her. Your clinging will only drive her away.



Here are some RED FLAG terms you've used:

"hang out everyday"

"Sunday is our day"

"random fone call"

"she didn't ask"

"she didn't consider my feelings"

"she knows shes wrong"

"she acts like"

"I wanna make her"

"I wish she felt as empty as I did"

"want her to feel my pain"

"call me and beg me"



Damn dude, as I spell this out I'm wishing I had her email address to warn her about you. Grow some balls and start acting like a man. STOP BEING A PUSS! You are acting like a little school girl. Grow up.
Reply:Being cloying and cling-y is no way to start any day...Give her some space!!!!

A flower cannot grow under a rock...and people need air and freedom to choose their movements.

It sounds like you're sucking the life out of this relationship...time to step back!!!
Reply:well emm this is a bit evil but it mite work

make an date and be like late say u got caught up at work or something then make sure u get a phone call from a work mate and leave early say its a work thing eventually she should want u like crazy
Reply:if you really love her that much why the hell would you want her to suffer your pain. just tell her your pain so it won't be just screaming at each other. then maybe things would work out.



good luck!
Reply:Your love has lost its sparkle...

If you do something too often, its likely its going to get boring... do something new!

P.S. I feel so mean.
Reply:She's getting bored with you buddy xxxxxxx
Reply:dude.... let her have some space....or you wont have her at all
Reply:she like some one else!!!
Reply:dude dont send flowers and things thats just lame give her a little space she can do what she wants
Reply:she might just need some time to sort things out... i mean if you are fighting with a friend that can really break you down, she was probly so excited she had her friend back, i don't think she meant to diss you, i mean she did, but she probly didn't think of it like that...for a girl(being one myself) her friends are like her net when she falls, depending on when she got her friend back, give her about a week then bring it up to her that you are glad she got her friend back but, you wish you two were spending alittle more time together

hope it gets better...
Reply:ok just be relax. maybe she feels soooo excited with what happened between her and her friend recently. they're all in good condition, is it?

you're soo kind and nice boyriend. she should be glad having you in her life.

but this is IMPORTANT! plsss do not take this as a revenge!

just let it be. what bygone is bygone. just face to face and tell what you feel.%26lt;33
Reply:ok heres the deal,

your girlfriend is her own person and has to have her own life,

the reality is if u wanted to be ain a serious relationship you won't and cant spend every second with her,

she has other friends and needs to spend time with them,

speak to her and ask her to keep to her promises because its hurting you and u feel as if she prefers her friend.

if she loves you, she loves you.

you have to trust her.

hope this helps
Reply:did u tel her how u felt wen she cancelled ur plans, y dont u sit and talk 2 her, its the only way to solve this, tell her u dont feel good being left out, honestly if she really loves and cares 4 u she will try make time 4 u, no matter what, u come first, friend comes second if its really love that u feel 4 each other..If she keeps on making time for her friend n not u thn u shuld think again..
Reply:Well the best thing you can do is to have dinner with her and then talk to her. Don't complain how she's always hanging out with her best friend. Just tell her I feel left out and when I'm not with you I miss you. Tell her how you feel hurt when she does these things and explain to her it is not to make her feel guilty but just to let her know how you feel. You want her to know that you're hurting the best way to let her know is just to tell her. At least you'll know how she feels too
Reply:OK, first of all, she doesn't have to ASK to do anything with you. Get that through your head before you go any further with your rant.



And I don't care how much you Effing love her, friends always come first in a relationship, especially if it's one she's trying to repair. Respect that and give her some space.



Next, she didn't DITCH you - she let you know ahead of time that she wasn't going to hang out with you today. It's not DITCHING if she had enough respect for YOU to call and say "Hey, something's come up, I'm sorry, DEAL!!"



She probably DOES hate people who break promises, but can you whole heartedly tell me that the two of you PROMISED each other that from now on you would always hang out on sundays, that it would be only YOUR day??



If there are some prior problems existing between you two, you need to straighten them out, or just get the hell out - because if you're bothered by a girlfriend who goes to see a friend? Then buddy, I wouldn't want to see you if I were her, and I'm sorry if that's harsh, but it's true.



You obviously feel guilty if you sent flowers - TALK TO HER, if she doesn't want to talk, SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK!! You're sick if you want her to come BEGGING to you.



Suck it up, and when she's ready to TALK, she'll TALK!
Reply:i know exactly what your going thru. But maybe this is a good thing for your relationship. if you love your girlfriend, you cant be overprotective of her, you need to give her some type of room to hang out with her friends. I know its easier said then done, especially when you are used to her being there all the time. but how is she going to miss you if you guys are always together? just think about it that way. Dont show her your weakness because women dont like that. the time you spend away from her, use it wisely, hang out with friends. play sports. just go and have fun.



hope this helped



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