How could she want to reconcile if she told me to stop bringing flowers to her workplace.?

We are separated and have been argueing for a year or so, the topic: why does she withhold love from me, and why does she talk behind my back to her family, and why doesn't she make love back to me in bed, and why di she give back her cell phone to me and order one I could not review the bill on? and why would she get so angry her veins would pop out when I questioned her fidelity, and why would she lie about little things that don't even matter, why would she get very angry when I point out that my suspiciousness is warented due to me finding out about affairs in the past. why would my wife disown her step daughter (MY OLDEST) when she told me about stuff that my wife was hiding from me. Why would she keep family furniture from her dead relatives in a storage locker that costs 100.00 per month and the furniture is not worth 500.00 in an auction. why would her deposits stat to dwindle down over time to less than 50% of what it was last year but she works the same.

How could she want to reconcile if she told me to stop bringing flowers to her workplace.?
I can tell you why.......it's because she doesn't like to get questioned! If she isn't cheating on you now and she's been telling you that she is not yet she still is getting questioned then yea she will withhold love from you, yea she will do all that stuff. She changed her cell phone because she knew you would look.



If you want her to stop acting this way, then maybe look at the way you are acting. If you change the way you are acting (stop bringing up the past and move on) then you will only change the way she is acting. Check out the book divorcebusters.



Your last question about deposits starting to dwindle down over time - easy she is depositing the rest into another account.



Seriously I think you need to get some professional help. At least you will get some feedback and help on what to do.



Good luck.
Reply:I answered your other question just a minute ago and i wanted to make a comment about this too.



women withhold affection because it is what they are taught to do (by their mothers, by society, by friends).



about the storage, many people don't realize how much money they are paying for their stored items and see the relation to how much the items are worth financially. also, they might be priceless to her because they belonged to lost family members which gives them a emotional value that doesn't have a price tag.



your wife is acting the crazy way she is because she feels guilty.



My theory about the flowers to the workplace (given earlier information) is that she possibly might have a love interest at work and doesn't want him to see you giving her flowers. Also she just might not want to be bothered at work by issues at home.
Reply:You have married a drama queen ,that's why.

She's probably cheating and you should divorce her.