My ex has a restraining order out on me - I can't go within 20 miles of him and his family apparently, but....

...is it still ok to send him stuff through the post?



I still love him sooooooo much, you see, and would love to send him things like letters, flowers, dog excrement and chocolates. Would that be ok?

My ex has a restraining order out on me - I can't go within 20 miles of him and his family apparently, but....
ROFLMAO
Reply:You sound sick. Go see a doctor. No wonder the guy left you.
Reply:No - leave him alone and move on. He obviously doesn't want you any more, and you're in danger of turning into a stalker and getting into real trouble.
Reply:No. A restraining order usually means you have to leave him alone completely. No calls, no letters, no anything. :-)
Reply:Any contact you make with him could constitue 'stalking'. You'll end up in more mess and trouble.



I've been on the other end of this, and it's no joke. And ex of mine still sends b'day cards to my kids and my other family members after 3 years, and it's creepy. I've moved on, and it's time you did too.

I know it hurts.
Reply:Dog excrement??



That's a public offence lol.





you are joking, right?
Reply:OK NO. there is a reason that he has a restraining order on you. Let him go before people start calling you crazy.
Reply:DO IT, THEN DO IT AGAIN
Reply:its time to move on from him





and don't send him anything





and a little Bird told me he is getting married to another girl
Reply:No you can't. A restraining order means that there is to be no contact either by post or phone, or any contact through a third party.
Reply:you cant be serious.. no that wouldn't be ok.
Reply:No you can't that is why there is a Restraining Order on you
Reply:Um, that's pretty creepy.
Reply:Well im sure it would be okay except for the dog excrement part thats a little gross.
Reply:That may be why he put the restraining order on you.



Were you stalking him???



Just leave him alone!!!
Reply:You send the nicest gifts will you be my gf
Reply:bunny boiler !
Reply:no harm in that.
Reply:there is a reason why he has put out a restraining order on you.do not send anything you could get in more trouble. if he wants to be with you he will let you know.back of for a while see what happens.

good luck
Reply:That's OK, but make sure you write return to sender on the back if undelivered.
Reply:Oh dear lord! lol
Reply:No, you can't send anything - leave him and his family alone. Obviously there's a reason they put a restraining order on you.
Reply:Was the order put in place before or after you started using the name Ms Minger??



Go the extra distance, knock on his front door and rub the dog's mess in his face, Police can't keep tabs on you 24/7, they are too busy searching innocent people in the street.
Reply:20 miles??????????? The nasty piece of work whom I have a restraining order against has to keep 300m away from me. What did you do to him?
Reply:Nah, not cheesy enough. Send him some handcuffs, a bed rail engraved with his and your names. Plant a tree in your yard. Tell him you named it after him. Buy some nuts at the store. Tell him you're just nuts about him. C'mon get real and get past him. It's not love. It's obsession. You can't win him over, hon. You will get arrested if you cross the line. He isn't going to appreciate your tokens, so why bother?????
Reply:Why love someone who does not love you?

You sound crazy to me.

Get over him!
Reply:Of course. Go ahead and send whatever you like. Hope you get back together soon.....so that he can thank you in person for your kind gifts.