Order people walk down the isle??

in our wedding:



maid of honor

best man

2 bridesmaids

2 groomsmen



minister is my fiance's brother



fiance - his mom wants him to walk with her down the isle...



my dad passed so i have no one to walk with...



also, my fiance's grandma is like a mother to him, so i think he should walk with his mom on one side and his grandma on the other, but i think that will piss his mom off!



his mom wants me to walk down with his dad, but i am thinking i want to walk with his brother (our minister)



oh and we have a little flower girl!!!



so who should walk with who and in what order do they go down the isle!? i am so confused!!! thanks in advance!

Order people walk down the isle??
Everyone does it different, but usually the groom and best man (sometimes all groomsmen) come to their places when the minister takes their place. The groom never escorts anyone down the aisle. It is not unheard of to walk down the aisle with your mom if she wants to give you away. The mothers are escorted by the ushers. Some people do the bridesmaids before the flower girl, some do the flower girl first. It just depends on your preference. As for the future father in law giving you away, I would not want that, because the person walking you "gives" you to your new groom. This should be someone from your family (or a friend) as a sign of their gift of you to the groom.
Reply:Precessional (Entering)



Mother of the bride accompanied by the Bestman or The Groom (let you mom choose) ... If she doesn't choose the Groom he is already at the front..



Mother of the groom accompanied by her husband or senior groomsman if her husband is not available...



(The rest of the Groomsmen are already at the front they step into position when the Bestman or senior groomsman take their place which ever is the last to arrive )



Flowergirl



Ringbearer



Bridesmaids in order of seniority (lowest to highest)



Maid of Honor



Bride (accompanied by person of her choosing)



Recessional (Leaving )



Bride and groom



Maid of Honor and BestMan



Bridesmaids and Groomsmen paired off in order of seniority( highest to lowest)



Ringbearer and Flower girl



Parents of the bride



Parents of the groom





You can choose anyone you want to walk you down the aisle it's your wedding... If you want his brother to walk you down speak up and make it known that's what will happen...
Reply:http://weddings.about.com/od/yourwedding...



And from this site:

http://ourmarriage.com/html/mother_of_th...

As the wedding begins, the groom's mother will be escorted down the aisle, to the first pew, right-hand side, by the head usher or a groomsman who is a family member. A nice touch includes the groom escorting his mother down the aisle. As the groom's mother is escorted to her seat, her husband will follow along behind. However, if the parents are divorced, the father of the groom will have been seated previously, two pews behind the mother.



Note that the bride's mother comes in last . . . just before the processional begins.



At a Christian ceremony, grandmothers enter BEFORE the mothers. First the groom's grandmothers. Then the bride's grandmothers.

Then comes the groom's mother, followed by the bride's mother. Then the processional begins. See order of processional here:

http://weddings.about.com/od/yourwedding...



LOL. Funny how everyone does it different, right? I suggest you read the info at about.com . . . and go from there. Good luck.
Reply:Ok heres the order that i would do





Grooms parents-tell his mom to get over it

your Mother

Fiance and his grandmother

Bridesmaid Groomsmen

Bridesmaids Groomsmen

Maid of honor

Flower girl

You and grooms brother



or you can even have your mother walk you down

Then have his brother walk their grandmother down..and have you fiance already waiting at the alter :)
Reply:First Hubby and his mommy and Grandma, then First set of maid and Groomsman, then the other set, the Best man and MOH, then flower girl and ring boy, then you and your Brother-in-Law.



...Thats how most do it.